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Lady Boner
The term Lady Boner playfully describes female sexual arousal—essentially the bodys physical and emotional reaction to desire. While men experience visible erections, women undergo their own physiological changes when aroused, though theyre often l
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Male
The term male primarily refers to the biological sex that produces sperm cells for reproduction. In humans and most animals, males typically possess XY chromosomes and reproductive organs such as testes. However, the meaning of male extends beyond
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Male Bodied
The term male-bodied refers to individuals who are born with biological traits typically associated with males, such as XY chromosomes, testicles, and higher levels of testosterone. However, in modern gender discussions, the term describes physical c
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Negging
Negging is a manipulative communication tactic used in dating or flirting, where someone gives backhanded compliments or subtle insults to lower another person’s confidence. The goal is to create self-doubt, making the target more eager for the manip
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Negotiation
In the world of BDSM and sexual exploration, negotiation is not just a discussion—it s the foundation that ensures mutual safety, respect, and understanding. Before any physical or emotional exchange takes place, both partners discuss their limits, d
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Oil-Based Lubricant
Oil-based lubricants are popular for their smooth, long-lasting texture and natural feel. They are made from oils such as coconut, mineral, or almond oil, offering a rich consistency that enhances sensual contact and reduces friction during intimacy.
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Old Guard
The Old Guard refers to the earliest, most traditional form of BDSM culture—rooted in postwar leather communities that valued discipline, loyalty, and mentorship. Emerging in the mid-20th century, it shaped much of today’s BDSM etiquette, emphasizing
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Panamory
The term Panamory combines the ideas of pansexuality and polyamory, describing people who are open to forming romantic or sexual connections regardless of gender—and who may also practice or accept having multiple relationships. It’s about inclusivit
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Pangender
Pangender describes an identity that goes beyond traditional gender boundaries. A pangender person identifies with multiple or all genders, either simultaneously or at different times. Unlike binary gender identities—male and female—pangender people
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Raptophilia
Raptophilia refers to a paraphilic interest involving arousal from the idea or fantasy of forceful domination or non-consensual acts. It is one of the most controversial paraphilias, primarily discussed in psychology, sexuality studies, and BDSM safe
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Raw Jaw
The term Raw Jaw is a modern slang phrase that refers to oral sex performed without a condom or barrier protection. It highlights the raw or unprotected nature of the act—where physical intimacy occurs without latex or dental dams between partners.
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Safe, Sane, Consensual
Within the BDSM and kink communities, the concept of Safe, Sane, and Consensual (SSC) serves as a moral compass. It defines how partners approach sexual exploration with awareness, care, and ethical responsibility. SSC emphasizes that pleasure should
