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Vattoo
A vattoo is a temporary body graphic airbrushed onto a woman s pelvic area, most often over the pubic mound. The term combines vagina and tattoo, highlighting its placement and decorative purpose. Unlike permanent tattoos, a vattoo fades naturall
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Pay for Play
Pay for Play refers to a consensual arrangement where one person compensates another—financially or with gifts—in exchange for intimacy, companionship, or specific experiences. It s a term often linked to adult entertainment, escorting, or sugar dati
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Pay Pig
A pay pig is a submissive individual who gains satisfaction by giving money, gifts, or tributes to a dominant partner—often called a findom (financial dominatrix). This exchange of money is not merely transactional; it s rooted in control, devotion,
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Resistance Play
Resistance play is a form of sexual interaction where one partner pretends to resist the other s advances. It creates a scenario that blends power, control, and consented struggle. While it might appear forceful on the surface, in reality, it s built
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Responsible Non-Monogamy
Responsible non-monogamy (RNM) describes a relationship model where partners consciously agree to engage in romantic or sexual connections with more than one person—without secrecy or betrayal. The focus is on honesty, consent, and emotional responsi
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Scopophilia
Scopophilia refers to the act of gaining sexual pleasure or psychological excitement from watching others, often when they are unaware of being observed. The term comes from Greek roots: skopein (to look) and philia (love).
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Scoptophilia
Scoptophilia refers to deriving pleasure or arousal from watching others, often in sexual or intimate contexts. The word comes from Greek roots — skopein meaning to look and philia meaning love. It highlights how visual stimulation can play a pow
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Testicular Torsion
Testicular torsion occurs when a man s spermatic cord—the structure that provides blood flow to the testicle—twists unexpectedly. This twist cuts off circulation, causing intense pain and swelling in one testicle.
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Testosterone
Testosterone is a naturally occurring hormone that plays a key role in sexual development, muscle growth, and mood regulation. Although it’s often labeled a male hormone, both men and women produce it—just in different amounts.
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Worship
In the BDSM world, worship describes a sensual and symbolic act where a submissive shows deep reverence toward a dominant partner s body or specific body part. This act isn t just about pleasure—it s also about power, respect, and surrender.
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Wrist Cuffs
Wrist cuffs are bands made of leather, metal, fabric, or silicone designed to encircle the wrists and limit movement. They can connect to another cuff, a restraint system, or even furniture, depending on the intended use. While they resemble fashion
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BDSM Capitalization
BDSM capitalization is a writing convention that reflects the dynamics of dominance and submission in written communication. It s not about grammar—it s about respect, hierarchy, and symbolism. Within BDSM communities, capital letters can represent p
