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Retifism
Retifism is a type of sexual interest or fixation centered around footwear—most commonly shoes or boots. This attraction may involve admiration of the object itself, a desire to see others wear specific types of footwear, or the act of incorporating
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Scotophilia
Scotophilia refers to a sexual arousal or fascination triggered by darkness or observing sexual acts in the dark. It s not about fear or absence of light—it s about the psychological tension, mystery, and heightened sensation that darkness brings to
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Screwing
Screwing is an informal term most commonly used to refer to sexual intercourse, typically penetrative. It s a slang expression, often considered vulgar, and is widely used in casual conversation, adult content, and pop culture. While it s direct and
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Retarded Ejaculation
Retarded ejaculation is a condition where a man takes an unusually long time to reach orgasm and ejaculate during sexual activity, or is unable to ejaculate at all despite full arousal. It s not about stamina or endurance—it’s a persistent delay that
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Texas Handcuffs
Texas Handcuffs refer to a restraint technique where a submissive partner s wrists and ankles are bound tightly together behind their back, often using rope, cuffs, or bondage straps. This position restricts nearly all movement and creates intense vu
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The Bases
In dating and sexual culture, the bases serve as a metaphorical way to describe different levels of physical intimacy between partners. Borrowed from baseball terminology, the concept helps people discuss sensitive topics—like making out or sex—usi
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Vault Horse
Traditionally, a vault horse is a padded piece of gym equipment used in gymnastics to perform vaulting exercises. But in adult and kink spaces, the term has evolved into something far more provocative.
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Veil Fetish
A veil fetish centers on the erotic fascination with veils—sheer, opaque, or symbolic fabrics that obscure parts of the face or body. The appeal lies in concealment, mystery, and the psychological tension of partial visibility. For many, veils create
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Wrist Restraint
Wrist restraint is a common practice in bondage and power exchange dynamics. It involves the controlled restriction of wrist movement using cuffs, ropes, straps, or specialized bondage gear. While its physical purpose is simple—limiting mobility—its
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WTRAFSOG
WTRAFSOG stands for What To Read After Fifty Shades of Grey. It is not just an acronym—it s a full-blown community signal and literary pathway. After Fifty Shades of Grey went mainstream, millions of readers were left craving similar stories: emotion
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BDSM Munch
A BDSM munch is a casual, non-sexual meetup where people in the kink community gather to connect, chat, and share experiences. It s usually held in public places like coffee shops, diners, or parks. There s no dress code, no play, and no pressure—jus
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BDSM Scene
A BDSM scene is a consensual encounter where two or more people engage in erotic activities involving bondage, dominance, submission, sadism, or masochism. But beyond the stereotypes, a scene is built on structure, negotiation, and clear communicatio
