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Wrist Cuffs
Wrist cuffs are bands made of leather, metal, fabric, or silicone designed to encircle the wrists and limit movement. They can connect to another cuff, a restraint system, or even furniture, depending on the intended use. While they resemble fashion
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BDSM Capitalization
BDSM capitalization is a writing convention that reflects the dynamics of dominance and submission in written communication. It s not about grammar—it s about respect, hierarchy, and symbolism. Within BDSM communities, capital letters can represent p
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BDSM Dungeon
A BDSM dungeon isn t a dark, dangerous place like movies often show. It s a controlled, consensual environment designed for people to explore bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, and other power-exchange activities. These spaces can be private
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Cattle Prod
A cattle prod is traditionally a handheld device used to guide or control livestock through short bursts of electric current. But in alternative sexuality circles—especially within BDSM or electro play—the term takes on a different meaning.
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Cavalier
The word cavalier once carried the elegance of aristocracy. It referred to a cultured gentleman—often a knight or officer—who acted as an escort to women of status. He was polite, noble, and chivalrous. In high society, being seen with a cavalier ele
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Detumescence
Detumescence is the process where an erect penis (or clitoris) returns to its flaccid state after sexual arousal. It s a natural part of the arousal cycle and occurs once stimulation ends, orgasm is achieved, or due to psychological or physiological
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Device Bondage
Device bondage is a form of BDSM restraint play where the submissive is immobilized using mechanical tools, frames, or rigid structures—rather than relying solely on rope or fabric. The purpose isn t just physical control, but psychological immersion
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Endorphin Rush
An endorphin rush is the body s natural response to intense physical or emotional stimulation. During moments of pleasure, stress, pain, or orgasm, the brain releases endorphins—neurochemicals that relieve discomfort and elevate mood. These chemicals
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Endytophilia
Endytophilia is a lesser-known sexual preference where arousal is linked to clothing during sex. For endytophiles, clothing isn t just fashion—it is part of the turn-on. Unlike common notions that nudity equals intimacy, this fetish flips the script.
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Female Sexual Arousal Disorder
Female Sexual Arousal Disorder (FSAD) refers to the persistent or recurring inability to attain or maintain sexual excitement, even when there is a clear desire for intimacy. This isn t about a lack of interest in sex—that s a different condition. FS
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Female Sexual Dysfunction (FSD)
Female Sexual Dysfunction (FSD) refers to ongoing problems related to sexual desire, arousal, orgasm, or pain during intercourse. While often overlooked, it is a condition that impacts millions of women—emotionally, physically, and relationally
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Gender Neutral
Gender neutral refers to an identity, language, behavior, or presentation that doesn t align with traditional concepts of male or female. It challenges binary thinking by creating space for people who don t fit neatly into either category.
