Karezza

  Karezza: The Art of Intimacy Without Release

Karezza is a gentle, intentional form of lovemaking that focuses on emotional connection rather than orgasm. The word comes from the Italian carezza, meaning “caress.” Unlike traditional sex that often centers on climax, Karezza emphasizes slow movements, prolonged touch, and shared affection, allowing both partners to experience deep emotional bonding.

This practice encourages couples to stay present and aware of each other, building a connection that transcends physical pleasure. In Karezza, the goal is not to reach release but to create a rhythm of trust, calm, and affection, enhancing closeness through stillness and mindfulness.

The Philosophy Behind Karezza

Karezza is often described as a form of spiritual intimacy, connecting the physical with the emotional and even the energetic. Partners engage in eye contact, gentle breathing, and tender touch without rushing toward orgasm.

Proponents believe that by avoiding climax, partners preserve energy and deepen their connection. The body remains relaxed, and emotional intimacy strengthens, reducing the typical “high-then-drop” feeling associated with post-orgasmic fatigue.

Practicing Karezza regularly can help couples rebalance passion and tenderness—making sex less about performance and more about connection.

  FAQ

What is aftersex?
Aftersex refers to the emotional and physical afterglow following intimacy. In Karezza, this state is prolonged, focusing on tenderness, calmness, and deep emotional presence rather than recovery.

What is the 3 squeeze rule?
The 3 squeeze rule is a gentle rhythm technique sometimes used in Karezza. It involves three slow, intentional squeezes or pulses during intimacy, promoting mindfulness and synchronization between partners.

Why do men's mood change after ejaculating?
After ejaculation, men often experience a drop in dopamine and a rise in prolactin, leading to fatigue or irritability. Karezza aims to maintain emotional stability by avoiding sudden hormonal shifts.

Is Karezza good for long-term relationships?
Yes, Karezza can enhance long-term intimacy. It helps couples reconnect emotionally, reduce performance pressure, and rekindle affection through slow, mindful contact.

How is Karezza different from tantric sex?
Karezza and tantra both value connection, but tantra involves spiritual rituals and energy movement. Karezza is simpler, focusing on emotional bonding and non-orgasmic closeness.