Dental Dam

  Dental Dam: Safe Intimacy Through Protection and Awareness

A dental dam is a thin sheet of latex or polyurethane used as a barrier during oral sex. It’s designed to prevent direct contact between the mouth and the genitals or anus, reducing the risk of transmitting sexually transmitted infections (STIs) such as herpes, HPV, or gonorrhea.

Unlike condoms, dental dams are specifically made for oral-vaginal or oral-anal contact. They serve as an effective, gender-inclusive tool for safer sex—especially among women who have sex with women (WSW), though anyone can use them.

Many people overlook dental dams because they’re less common than condoms, but they’re just as important for maintaining sexual health. The focus isn’t on restriction—it’s on ensuring pleasure and safety coexist.

How to Use a Dental Dam Correctly

Using a dental dam is simple once you get familiar with it.

• Position the dam: Lay the sheet flat over the vulva or anus before oral contact.

• Add lubricant: A water-based lube on one side increases sensation and prevents tearing.

• Hold it steady: Keep it in place throughout oral sex to maintain full coverage.

• Never reuse: Dispose of it immediately after use—just like a condom.

You can even make one from an unrolled condom by cutting off the tip and side, creating a flat rectangle. It’s a versatile, accessible way to stay safe while staying intimate.

  FAQ

How does a dental dam stay on?
It doesn’t adhere on its own—it’s held in place manually during oral sex. Applying a small amount of lube helps it stay flat and prevents slipping.

Do dental dams still exist?
Yes. They’re still produced by several brands and are available online and at sexual health clinics. Some people also create DIY versions from condoms or gloves.

Do lesbians actually use dental dams?
Yes, though not all do. Dental dams are commonly recommended for safer sex between women, as they help reduce the risk of STI transmission during oral contact.

Is dental dam painful?
No. A dental dam is soft, thin, and flexible. When used with lubricant, it enhances comfort and doesn’t interfere with sensation or pleasure.

Do lesbians remove their pubic hair?
Personal grooming is a matter of choice. Some prefer hair removal for hygiene or aesthetic reasons, while others don’t—it has no impact on sexual health or dental dam use.

What do lesbians use instead of condoms?
They may use dental dams, gloves, or finger cots as barriers during sex. These alternatives provide protection while maintaining sensitivity and intimacy.