BDSM DungeonA BDSM dungeon isn t a dark, dangerous place like movies often show. It s a controlled, consensual environment designed for people to explore bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, and other power-exchange activities. These spaces can be private
- Cattle Prod
A cattle prod is traditionally a handheld device used to guide or control livestock through short bursts of electric current. But in alternative sexuality circles—especially within BDSM or electro play—the term takes on a different meaning.
- Cavalier
The word cavalier once carried the elegance of aristocracy. It referred to a cultured gentleman—often a knight or officer—who acted as an escort to women of status. He was polite, noble, and chivalrous. In high society, being seen with a cavalier ele
- Detumescence
Detumescence is the process where an erect penis (or clitoris) returns to its flaccid state after sexual arousal. It s a natural part of the arousal cycle and occurs once stimulation ends, orgasm is achieved, or due to psychological or physiological
- Device Bondage
Device bondage is a form of BDSM restraint play where the submissive is immobilized using mechanical tools, frames, or rigid structures—rather than relying solely on rope or fabric. The purpose isn t just physical control, but psychological immersion
- Endorphin Rush
An endorphin rush is the body s natural response to intense physical or emotional stimulation. During moments of pleasure, stress, pain, or orgasm, the brain releases endorphins—neurochemicals that relieve discomfort and elevate mood. These chemicals
- Endytophilia
Endytophilia is a lesser-known sexual preference where arousal is linked to clothing during sex. For endytophiles, clothing isn t just fashion—it is part of the turn-on. Unlike common notions that nudity equals intimacy, this fetish flips the script.
- Female Sexual Arousal Disorder
Female Sexual Arousal Disorder (FSAD) refers to the persistent or recurring inability to attain or maintain sexual excitement, even when there is a clear desire for intimacy. This isn t about a lack of interest in sex—that s a different condition. FS
- Female Sexual Dysfunction (FSD)
Female Sexual Dysfunction (FSD) refers to ongoing problems related to sexual desire, arousal, orgasm, or pain during intercourse. While often overlooked, it is a condition that impacts millions of women—emotionally, physically, and relationally
- Gender Neutral
Gender neutral refers to an identity, language, behavior, or presentation that doesn t align with traditional concepts of male or female. It challenges binary thinking by creating space for people who don t fit neatly into either category.
- Gender Neutral Pronouns
Gender neutral pronouns are used to refer to someone without indicating their gender identity. These pronouns provide an inclusive way to speak about people whose gender is nonbinary, fluid, or simply not disclosed. They also help avoid assumptions i
- Height and Weight Proportional
Height and weight proportional is a phrase often used in dating profiles or matchmaking questionnaires. At first glance, it seems clinical—but it s loaded with subjective interpretation. Rather than referring to a specific ratio or medical standard
