The Ultimate Guide to the Pretzel Sex Position
What Is the Pretzel Sex Position?
The Pretzel sex position is a side-lying sexual move that’s much easier to do than it sounds. In this position, the partner being penetrated lies on their side with one leg straight and the other bent across their body. The penetrating partner kneels between their legs, straddling the lower leg, and lifts the top leg to wrap around their waist or hips. This position combines the deep penetration of Doggy Style with the intimacy of face-to-face contact, making it a favorite for couples seeking connection.
It’s also known as the Pretzel Dip or Camel Ride, depending on the variation. The position isn’t limited to any sexual orientation—it works for heterosexual, lesbian, and gay couples, as well as those using strap-ons or dildos. Whether you're exploring something new or enhancing your intimacy, the Pretzel position offers a lot to enjoy.
In this guide, we'll break down everything you need to know about the pretzel sex position:
Why You Should Try the Pretzel Sex Position
The Benefits

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Deep penetration: The angle of the Pretzel position makes it great for G-spot and A-spot stimulation, giving intense internal sensations. It’s perfect for anyone who loves deep, satisfying penetration.
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Intimacy: Face-to-face positioning allows for eye contact, kissing, and plenty of touching, making this position feel more connected and personal.
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Hands-free fun: With at least one hand free, both partners can enjoy touching or using toys for additional stimulation.
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Great for height differences: The kneeling position of the penetrating partner combined with the lying position of the receiver makes this position ideal for couples with a height gap.
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Supportive: It’s a great option for people with back or hip issues since the position provides ample support for both partners, especially in the lower back area.
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Control the rhythm: The position allows for a more sensual, slow grind or a faster pace, giving both partners control over the experience.
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Communication: The need for angle adjustments during the position encourages frequent communication, enhancing the overall experience.
Studies show that eye contact can release oxytocin, also known as the "cuddle hormone," and phenylethylamine, which is linked to attraction and intimacy. Research by the University of Texas found that open communication during sex improves both sexual function and desire.
How to Do the Pretzel Sex Position
Here’s how to get into the Pretzel:
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For the receiver: Lie on your side. Straighten the bottom leg and bend the top leg across your body.
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For the penetrating partner: Kneel between the receiver's legs, straddling the lower leg. Lift the receiver's top leg and wrap it around your waist or hips.
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Slowly penetrate and adjust the angle for comfort and depth. If you need more support, consider adding a pillow under the receiver’s hip or head.
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Communicate with your partner about the rhythm and angle to ensure maximum pleasure for both.
Pro tip: Use lube to reduce friction, and the receiver can use their free hand to adjust or hold onto their partner for more control.
Variations & Adjustments to Spice Things Up
Once you’ve mastered the basic Pretzel position, feel free to experiment with these variations to switch things up:
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Close Pretzel: Both partners stay even closer, increasing skin-to-skin contact and intimacy.
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Power Dip: The penetrating partner moves into a squat or lunge position, which adds more control over the depth and rhythm for a more intense experience.
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Reverse Pretzel: The receiver faces slightly away, shifting the dynamics of the position and creating a more dominant-submissive feel.
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Standing Pretzel: The receiver lies on the edge of the bed, and the penetrating partner stands. This variation is great for larger bodies or those with knee discomfort.
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Scissoring Pretzel: Both partners lie on their sides, legs intertwined, perfect for non-penetrative sex or lesbian couples.
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BDSM Pretzel: Add restraints, dirty talk, or nipple clamps for a more adventurous, BDSM-style experience.
Who Should Try the Pretzel?
Great for:
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Couples who enjoy deep penetration
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Partners looking for a more intimate, connected experience
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People with significant height differences
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Those who want to try new positions without complicating things too much
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Anyone with back or hip discomfort who needs extra support
Not Ideal for:
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Those with hip or knee pain (though some variations may help)
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People who don’t enjoy deep penetration
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Those with acute back issues
Tips for Enhancing the Experience
Pre-Sex Tips:
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Warm up: Use massage oils or flavored lube to enhance sensory experience before moving into penetration.
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Try oral sex or manual stimulation, bringing each other close to orgasm before transitioning to the Pretzel.
During Sex:
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Use a vibrator or cock ring for added pleasure.
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Explore nipple play or anal stimulation (don’t forget the lube).
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Switch between slow grinding and deeper thrusting for varied sensations.
After-Sex:
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Stay close after climax to continue enjoying the intimacy.
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Use a sex blanket to avoid cleanup and keep things comfortable.
Communication & Safety Tips
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If anything feels uncomfortable, don’t hesitate to adjust or stop. Always communicate with your partner about what feels good or needs changing.
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Use lube to reduce friction and ensure comfort for both partners.
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Support the knees and back with pillows if needed to avoid strain.
Make sure to discuss boundaries before trying the Pretzel, especially if you’re exploring a more BDSM version with restraints or other play.
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FAQ
Q1: Is the Pretzel position good for anal sex?
Yes, the Pretzel position works for anal sex or pegging with proper adjustments and lubrication.
Q2: Can plus-size couples try the Pretzel?
Absolutely. The Standing Pretzel variation is perfect for larger bodies and makes the position more accessible.
Q3: How can I make the Pretzel more comfortable?
Use pillows to support the hips or head, adjust the angle, and be mindful of knee pressure.
Q4: Can two women perform the Pretzel?
Yes, this position works for same-sex couples. Use a strap-on or double-ended dildo, or simply engage in scissoring.
Q5: What if I have knee pain?
Try the Standing Pretzel or switch to a side-lying variation with less knee pressure.
Q6: Is the Pretzel the same as the Pretzel Dip?
Yes, these terms are often used interchangeably. However, the Passion Pretzel is a different position altogether.
Q7: Who should avoid the Pretzel position?
The Pretzel may not be suitable for those with severe hip or knee pain. Also, if you have acute back problems, you may want to avoid this position or opt for modifications that reduce pressure on your lower back or knees.
References & Further Reading
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Psychology Today: The Science of Eye Contact
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University of Texas Study: Communication and Sexual Function
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WebMD: What Is the Pretzel Sex Position?
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Kinkly: The Pretzel Dip Position